How I Went From Lonely & Unfuckable To Most Wanted & Satisfied With 1 Word…

In my early 20’s I’d chug beer every weekend to stop feeling lonely. 

Everyone had a hot date, and I another beer and binged on Lay’s potato chips.

I’d say to myself, “Self, what’s wrong with you?”

One stormy night, I kept roasting my ass until I had an answer…

After pacing my living room apartment, the answer showed up! 

And the sticky word that started it all: Why?

How does this work? I’ll show you.

I pull out a sheet of paper and began private therapy.

No one allowed. Just me, a pen and paper.

Let’s begin…

Why am I single?

Because I hang out at dingy bars with loser friends.

Why do you hang out at dingy bars with loser friends?

Because it’s better than staying home alone.

Why is it better than being home alone?

Because I feel like I’ll miss out on the party.

Why do you feel like you’ll miss out on the party?

Well… back when I was a kid, I didn’t get invited to do things. My folks worked all the time, and television surfing was my friend—lots of lonely times. I guess I get desperate around people. I would party all night because I didn’t want it to end. I didn’t want to go home alone.

Just like that… the flood opened.

Problems didn’t seem like problems after I cleared it up with bedrock truth.

This magical discovery to use “Why…?” is like $50,000 worth of therapy.

Heck… anyone could do this starting today!

When life gets overwhelming… chip at the problem with “Why…?”

The entire mental movie changes in your favor when you ask better questions.

And questions are better than answers.

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